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Power Assertive Rapists-Date Rape

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Continuing this series about rape prevention--I previously wrote about power reassurance rapists, their MO, and methods of avoidance, and escape. I'm writing about these types in order of danger, from the least violent, the power reassurance type, to the most dangerous--Anger Excitation-Sadist. In this post, I'm going to describe the power assertive type, more dangerous than the power reassurance type of my last post.

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Power Assertive (a.k.a. entitlement, exploitative, can be a “date rapist”)

 

Motivation

§         Insecure, but comes across to have no self-doubt

§         To possess, not harm, but harm often occurs

§         Feels inadequate with women – overactive ego

§         Restore self-confidence

§         Confirmation of manhood – rapes because he is a man and entitled to

§         Express virility and personal dominance

 

The Attack

 

Method of Approach

·  Con

·   Blitz

 

Method of Attack

·  Mainly verbal threats

·   Control, mastery, humiliation

·   Force with a weapon, but often only to ensure cooperation

·    20–25-day cycle

 

Behavior

Verbal

·  Often socially competent

·   Desires little victim interaction; rapist’s pleasure in primary

·   Stereotypically known as “macho”

·    Use of obscene language

·    Explicit sexually; demanding

May use phrases like:

o       “I want you on top, play with yourself”

o       “I can give you the wildest sex of your life”

o       “You have sex written all over your face”

 

Sexual

·   Goal is capture, conquer, and control

·    Often repeatedly attacks single victim

·     Sexually punishes by pulling, pinching, biting

·     Bondage often employed

·     Similar with anger retaliatory – goal is to humiliate victim

·      Selfish

 

Physical

·    Moderate to high aggression exhibited

·    Rips clothing in order to intimidate

·    Use of force to gain compliance, especially with resistance

 

MO

·    Non-lethal goal, but death can occur due to brutality employed

·    Tends to be unorganized as has little control over impulses, but weaponry planning can show organization

·    Victim selected in advance at times, but often opportunistic

·    Finds victim often at single bar locations

·    Selects safe location, victim dependent; often transports victim to assault location

 

Signature

 

·    Victim held captive during rape

·    Risky – zero respect

·    Desire to control sexually

·    Desire to leave victim physically and emotionally traumatized

 

Personal Information

·    69% raised in single-parent family

·    74% physically abused as a child

·    High school dropout

·    Serial marriages – has existing consistent sex partner

·    Dishonorable discharge from the military

·    Domestic problems (in attempt to validate macho image)

·    Frequents single bars

·    Image conscious

·    Masculine type job – construction, police officer

·    Often athletic

 

Methods of Avoidance

§         Begging and crying ineffectual

§         If you’re going to resist, scream and fight violently, but realize that when you do so, they will get more and more angry

§         The rapist’s manhood is in question and to be aggressive to him is showing that is isn’t coming off as strong or manly enough

§         Still, compared with other rapist types (because he is not an anger rapist) trying to escape might be worth it as the punishment if       ---------caught is not generally death

§         Keep in mind that his goal is to humiliate, not to torture

§         You must be smart if you try to escape

§         If you choose to not try to escape, try to anger him as little as possible to increase your chance of survivalImage result for running from killer

Source:

http://uspp.csbsju.edu/CrimPsych/CPSG-5.htm

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In conclusion, one of the best methods to keep yourself safe is not to go out alone at night--go out with a group, if you go to a bar, stay aware of your surroundings. There have been times when I felt as though I may be in a threatening situation. I took pictures of my surroundings, at times I took video of the people I felt uneasy about. Even if the pictures or video are deleted, law enforcement officials can retrieve them, in some cases, even if the phone is damaged.

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