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Anger Retaliatory--displaced anger

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§         Rage towards one person/punish women expressing his rage

§         Often misdirected impulses of hatred toward random victim

§         Sometimes in name of politics or religion, but in general it’s a crusade to hurt women who have hurt him

§         Believes self-importance is most important

The Attack

         Method of Approach

·    Blitz

         Method of Attack

·    Brutal and violent initially, using sex as the weapon

·    Weapon (e.g., knife)

·    6 months–year cycle



·    Selfish

·    Not negotiable

·    Blames victim for their unfortunate life

·    Extremely angry; displaces anger onto victim

·     Obscene language

May use phrases like:

“This is what is going to happen if you ever think about leaving me”

“I will kill your new boyfriend”

“Where is your boyfriend now?”



·     No foreplay

·     Selfish

·     Violent – extension of physical attack

·    Forces acts to humiliate victim – “This rapist may rape his victim anally and then force her to perform oral sex on him immediately afterward. Following oral sex, he may ejaculate on her face in a further attempt to degrade her”


·    Rips clothing

·    Prepares for the rape (dressing in military fatigues, police uniform)

·    Excessive brutality – much injury


·     Often lethal

·     Tends to be unorganized, but is organized in process

·     Stranger attack; unplanned and emotional

·     Victim population planned; symbolizes whom/what offender hates

·      Seeks women of his own race and age group, sometimes older

·     Depending on level of organization, weaponry can be extensive



·    Offender sees their own life as a message to others

·    Attack is short and emotional; experiences satisfaction once anger discharged

·    Short period of time – diffuses anger and escapes, generally leaving body if victim is killed


Personal Information

·    On average, completed 9th grade education

·     Physical harm before sexual harm

·     Often drug/alcohol abuser

·     Socially competent; likely to be married and does not assault wife

·     Tends to be an adulterer

·     Comes from unhealthy home, with more than half having been abused by parents.

·      80% come from a divorced home; more than half spent time in foster care

·     Athletic and masculine self-image


Methods of Avoidance

§         Any resistance may enrage him

§         Not looking to kill you, but the beating could be fatal – more so than either of the power rapists

§         Do not challenge or enrage – try to escape or incapacitate rapist

§         If not trying to escape, try to limit the level of violence

§         Pick a path and stick with it – either try to outsmart the rapist or be highly compliant. The reasoning for this is that that the rapist is of such a violent nature and has a low frequency of between crimes, so the anger he possesses resembles someone else to him and tends to be highly volatile. A victim must choose her path cautiously and must not act on a whim because he will have zero tolerance for erratic behavior.



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