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When A Woman Is Tired...

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The only thing that is more powerful than a woman is the love of a woman. Her strength is not measured in muscle mass, but in her capacity to love and nurture society. She can carry both male and female in her womb. When she falls in love, she carries her man; in her heart, instead of in her womb. Because he is in her heart, she doesn't give up on him when he is wrong. She will tell him and even fight with him, so that she can help him. She understands that he will hurt her feelings, and releases her pain through her tears. She realizes that love is strong enough to heal the pain. So, she continues to love him.

However, after she fights so hard and cries so long, she gets tired. It starts to feel like there is no way to win. She realizes that she can't fight alone. Her heart becomes heavy with tears, leaving no place for her to carry her man. She starts to get tired. That's when she realizes that she has to let him go, even though it breaks her heart. To continue to hold him in her heart would stop her heart, because she loves him to death. Her love becomes the life line that pulls her out of love with him. She is tired. She must leave.

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Valante M. Grant is the founder of The byDesign Network. She has built a network that encompasses broadcast media, audio and video production, copy writing and graphic design. Her primary creative focus is customization. Her philosophy is that every human being is one of God’s designer originals. She uses her creativity to design a life that fulfills her purpose and helps others reach their destiny. Valante will share her message of encouragement on her blog. Valante resides in the Chicago metropolitan area. Her inspiration is her daughter, Vanyce.


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