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Everyone has an ex or exes. This is the relationship that didn't last. It doesn't matter who was wrong. Sometimes, no one was wrong. It just wasn't meant to be. In order to truly have an ex, you have to be sure that the relationship is over. It is more than not being together. The anger, resentment and pain is gone as well. You have put it behind you and moved on.

Then, there is the "why." This is the relationship that you regret. You ask yourself "why did I ever fall for this person. How could I be so stupid?" You just wish the whole thing never happened. You knew better in the first place. In some cases you find yourself questioning why the person was even born. The time that you spent together is a complete waste of time.

Finally, there is the "Z." This is the Omega relationship. It is the last relationship that you will ever have. This is the one who is your soul mate. You share love, share goals and share your life. You can let out that sigh of relief and relax in each others' arms. This is the one who makes you forget your exes and makes the "whys" worth it. So don't be frustrated by the exes and the "whys." Don't give up. Hang in there until you get to Z.

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Valante M. Grant is the founder of The byDesign Network. She has built a network that encompasses broadcast media, audio and video production, copy writing and graphic design. Her primary creative focus is customization. Her philosophy is that every human being is one of God’s designer originals. She uses her creativity to design a life that fulfills her purpose and helps others reach their destiny. Valante will share her message of encouragement on her blog. Valante resides in the Chicago metropolitan area. Her inspiration is her daughter, Vanyce.


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