On the eve of the big game, representatives from the San Francisco Bay Area Super Bowl 50 Host Committee took part in their first official Super Bowl 50 duty today; the Host Committee Handoff Ceremony at Super Bowl XLIX in Phoenix, Arizona. This marks the official start of the countdown to the milestone Super Bowl 50.
Leaving nothing to chance, but living life by design.
Valante M. Grant is the founder of The byDesign Network. She has built a network that encompasses broadcast media, audio and video production, copy writing and graphic design. Her primary creative focus is customization. Her philosophy is that every human being is one of God’s designer originals. She uses her creativity to design a life that fulfills her purpose and helps others reach their destiny. Valante will share her message of encouragement on her blog. Valante resides in the Chicago metropolitan area. Her inspiration is her daughter, Vanyce.
Does colorism really exist? Of course it does. However, I see underlying issues, that are far more disturbing. Colorism is fueled by a basic lack of a sense of self beauty. The old saying that "beauty is only skin deep" is catchy but not true. Beauty radiates from within. It starts with the consciousness of your own beauty. If you are unconscious of your beauty, how can you reveal it to others.
She walked in. I looked up. I did a double take. Is that my baby? Even though I had been there every step of the way, it was as if she had changed within an instant. There she was -- a young lady. I realized that I have to change the way that I treat her and talk to her. She doesn't interact with me the same way. Her needs have changed. She no longer comes running to me for every little thing. Sometimes, I have to reach out and let her know that mommy will always be there.
When children are exceptionally smart or talented, they are usually determined to do whatever they want to do, regardless of the consequences. It is easy to mistake this strong will for defiance. The intent is not to defy authority. Because they think on a higher level than normal, they trust their own judgement more than most children. They naturally make decisions for themselves, in cases where you would expect them to get permission from an adult. They are also a lot more verbal. Intelligent children have great communication skills and do not hesitate to voice their thoughts. This does not mean that they are getting smart. It means that they are smart.
There are times when you wake up in the morning, determined to be productive. Your day is all planned. The task list is set. You’re ready to “get it done.” Then, you get this idea that is not on the list. It nags at you all day and distracts you from what you are “supposed” to be doing. This nagging urge is inspiration. Don’t suppress it. Don’t put it off. While you are checking off your to do list, you may be missing a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. This inspiration could be your key to millions and immeasurable success. Productivity earns wages. Inspiration produces wealth.
People around the world are celebrating this season of giving. There is a huge difference between exchanging gifts and truly giving. A real gift comes from the heart and meets a need or satisfies a desire. It is more than just checking off names on a list. It is placing someone's name in your heart. It has nothing to do with budgets or money. Everyone has something to give. The ability to share with others, even though you are in need, brings you a special kind of joy. Giving should not be based on the reciprosity of others, but on the necessities of others.
Everyone wants to be better, do better and get better. The goal is to be the best person that you can possibly be. The starting point of the road to being the best, is believing that you are already good. You never want to think of yourself as bad or in bad shape. That mindset diminishes your value. When you can't see your value, you limit your motivation. It is easier to improve something that is good, than it is to transform something that is bad. If you list everything that you don't like about yourself, it will feel like it is nearly impossible to correct it all. I guarantee you that even with all of your faults, you still have more good qualities than bad. That is your motivation.
You were born with your best already inside of you. It evolves and expands as you grow. You cannot change who you are. Achieving your best is not a transformation. It is a confirmation of who you are. You have to accept the person that you are, in order to be the best person that you can be. Naturally, you pay more attention to things that you like, or think are good. The process of self improvement is not from bad to good. It is good, better, best.
I don’t want to be your woman. I want to be your wife. If I can’t be your wife, then let’s just be friends.
It has become widely accepted by women to be “his woman” indefinitely. He comes by for a few meals. Maybe he spends the night. Sometimes he has a key, or even moves in. Families have evolved into many different formats. Everyone has the right to love who they want to love, the way that they want to love them. However, there are still some women who value marriage and family. If you want to be his wife, you simply cannot settle for being his woman.
We are rapidly approaching the end of the year. In just a couple of months, it will be time to make those New Year's resolutions again. Before you make new resolutions, it is a good idea to find resolution for the old year. As we look ahead to a new year and new beginnings, it is easy to overlook unresolved issues that can undermine new endeavors. Now is the time to reflect on this year. Identify areas of weakness or conflict. Work through them, and resolve them. Many people go through year after year, struggling with the same problems; and never make any real progress in life. Don't think of a new year as a chance to start over. Think of it as a chance to advance to the next level. It's like school. If you have to repeat a grade, it is considered failing. Neglecting to find old year resolution is like flunking out of life.
Even though violence and hatred dominate the media and even entertainment, love is still the most powerful force on Earth. In a “life imitating art” society; we see drama, deception and perversion becoming more of a reality, than reality TV. In this we see the magnification of hatred overshadowing the magnificence of love. It is common to hear people say that they are motivated by “haters.” Hate motivates people to hurt, kill and destroy others. Therefore, it is impossible for a hater to motivate you to do anything positive.